Valentine's 2010

This article speaks about the different points of view between husbands and wives on the occasion of valentine's day. However, as the author and being a woman, this article may tilt more on the woman's point of view. You may all agree or disagree. It's a matter of opinion and experience.

On this day, they call the day of the hearts, many women including the author, would like to believe that it is the day when she feels more special. It is also the day when she may confirm that she is still loved and cared for. It's a day of reassurance, especially for married women.

One woman I know listed all the things that her man can do, inexpensively, to make her feel more special and well loved on this day of hearts.

First on the list is an inexpensive NOTE. A simple note, written by her man and posted on the fridge door or anywhere else around the house would surely bring a smile on her face. Even if the note is just written on a simple post-it paper, it will be cherished for sure. Mind you guys, women would surely keep in a safe and secret place.

Second, a simple WALK BY THE BEACH watching either the sunrise or the sunset is such a romantic treat. It will be treasured in her heart until she gets old and could no longer remember anything.  For sure that feeling would remain in her heart.

Third, a GOOD TALK with her man would matter a lot. Keeping the communication lines open is a big deal for women. It would be a treasured moment to remember a day that both of you had a good laugh, a good talk or even if both of you cried for certain reasons other than marital/partner problems. Such us when both of you watch a good movie which might touch your hearts and bring you both to tears. Such moment will be remembered.

These are the top three inexpensive ways to express and reaffirm your love to your partner. Again this is on the point of view of a woman.

Now we go to the men's point of view. I've known of a man who have never done any surprises to her girls before. However lately, he learned the art of surprising his woman. Men at times work and plan at their own pace. They at times would not care of the time or good timing.  As soon as they can get their plans done, then that's it.

Men I think, due to their chivalry within, would impressed their women with precious gifts. Of course, women would appreciate it. They want to give  jewelry, expensive gifts, bring their women to good restaurants and all that. Again, all these are surely appreciated by women. But just a piece of advice, when all these expensive ways of expressing one's love cannot be carried out at times, go back to the basics, the top three ways listed above. You'll surely be safe.

On a personal note, this year's valentine's is quite extraordinary. There were hitches somewhere but love found its own way of expressing itself. The three red roses and a big heart-shaped balloon given beyond the hours of valentine's day were yet sweet and reassuring. Thank you for the effort and the thought that went with it. I love you.